This is probably the best movie for people in the scene. It is simply amazing. It really shows the way a guy can interact with his oneitis, the way he controls her without realizing it, the ways to escape your past and the power of friendship.
I hate the title of this movie and that kept me from watching it for a long time. It is designed to catch the attention of teenage girls and I believe that is the intended audience for the movie, but the film is simply awesome. I am not going to break down the plot there. The truth is you will either trust me and watch this movie or not. It still blows my mind how many guys want to get good with women, yet refuse to watch The L Word. I have been screaming the name of that show for a full year now. I bet you haven’t watched a single episode have you? I don’t think anyone should be allowed to complain about escalation until they have watched at least 3 seasons. It’s simply necessary.
But this movie is amazing at showing the power friendship can play in social dynamics. The sweetness of this movie is really inspiring. If you want to really understand how relationships blossom in a dynamic way, watch this movie. It is really powerful and moving. You will learn a lot about all of the other prerequisites of game too, don’t worry. It has a ton of frame control, shit tests and locational comfort.
Like I said, I watched this movie for the 2nd time last night. There is about 20 minutes I would like to cut out of the movie, as one character is just really annoying to me. But I skip through her scenes and it’s fine now. I think the most powerful lesson comes from the last lines of the movie. The girl says “Are you sad that we missed it?” and the boy responds with “We didn’t miss it. This IS it.”
He is so right. Often we are so unable to live in the moment as we focus on what isn’t happening in our lives. Concerts are awesome. I love them. I go all the time. What is really important is the emotions we share and the impact we have on the world. I recommended this movie on the London forum recently. Something tells me a lot of guys are missing this amazing movie. And that is a shame. Because this is it.