Now I have written a lot on here and gone to great depths, so I will share with you something killer that happened today. But first the back story. For a few months now, , my dad has had the link to my main facebook page. And if you know me, which you soon will!, I post pics of me with new HBs on there several times a week. It’s how I social proof and really helps me feel like a stud-muffin. I have talked to him a lot about my inner game progression and how I’ve begun to understand the matrix. About a month ago, I knew my bill from my bootcamp was coming in the mail. I mean it’s on my credit card statement which my dad always reads, since I don’t live in America. My dad is chill as hell. I’m actually super lucky in that department.
I told him how I had spent a weekend learning how to get good with girls. Meet them in clubs etc. He was like damn, if that thing is the reason you are meeting these hot girls that it is definitely worth it! We had a good hour-long chat about how my life is getting better and better. I try to be really open with my family, because I massively hate secrets. When you have a secret it can have power over you. I can go off on a tangent here, but let’s just say I’m pretty damn open. I mean just read this blog. Anyways, I told him a lot about my personal development and my pop was really supportive.
This weekend both of my parents are in town visiting me for the first time in a year. It’s pretty cool to have them around, but also strange because I am so different. Today I had a three hour train ride with them and the whole time my mom read a book while I had a conference with my dad. I went into a lot more detail. I explained the skeleton of the emotional progression model, and how I understand women and people so much more. So he had me do a few body language reads on people on the train and he loved it. He was really interested in frames, iois, and just everything. I told him my current opener and a couple of cold read transitions I am developing. I told him about direct and indirect and how I had my massive Social Circle close the other week. In the end he asked to read that LR. So I let him.
Now my dad is a natural. The more I learn in the game, the more I finally understand his success. He was a successful athlete and then a successful businessman, with many adventures along the way. I have always wanted to be as good with women as him, but as with most naturals, he did not know how to teach what he was doing.
He read my LR and was really impressed. He really understands the world we live and and what we are trying to accomplish. He asked a lot about the new guys I’m hanging out with. He asked if the guys who are really good look down on the new guys in the scene. I explained that to get good you have to be alpha, not just pretend, and that is about value giving. The great teachers in this scene teach because they love to share. My dad’s questions were intuitive and it was really cool
After they train ride, my parents took me and Soul out to dinner. I told Soul how my dad knew what’s up and he immediately started talking about teaching 1on1s in Sweden this weekend. He was really going into detail and saying how cool it is that my parent’s know what’s going on when I flagged him down and let him know that only my dad knows that much. I just told my mom that he’s Hitch, which she really loved. We had a great dinner and my dad and Soul talked a ton. They really connected. My dad has a really deep appreciation for how I have changed and he really saw where my destination is. Soul could tell from my dad’s stories and body language, how he is a natural. Overall it was a really great dinner. I think I’m the only guy in the community who’s dad knows what’s going on.
It was really good to be able to share that with Soul, as he has been great for me. I have learned a lot from him, just by being around him, about fashion, fitness, and value-giving. We went to a really great restaurant. He let me crash on his floor a few weeks ago, which was really nice. He didn’t expect anything back from me. So I wanted to share a great night out with my parent’s, who are both legends. Overall today was a really cool day and a lot of my future development will be affected by it. Will I give my dad this blog address, probably not. If I did, I wouldn’t change a thing and I think I go into a little too much detail for him to handle. But if he asks, I probably will. Oh and I didn’t tell him anyone’s community names, or my own. We gotta keep some secrets right?