There are 5 reasons why every pickup artist should go to a bar alone to meet women. Hunting in packs is a classic mistake and it’s time for you to learn to avoid such a lame mistake. There is a reason that we all think snipers are so cool. They hunt alone. It’s all or nothing and it’s on there shoulders. They have no one to blame if they miss that crucial shot.
If you go out to a bar alone you will improve your life for five amazing reasons.
1. You are forced to go out of your shell. When you are in a group, you can have a nice average time without talking to another stranger. You just spend the whole night talking to your friends. When you are in a bar by yourself, you either talk to strangers or you stand their quiet and alone and very bored.
2. People are more likely to approach you. Think about when you want to walk up to a woman. It’s so much easier when she is standing alone than when she is with 10 of her closest friends. Other people feel the same way. When you are standing alone you are far less intimidating.
3. Going out in a pack of guys actually makes you look weak. Guys go out in groups not because they are confident, but because they are not brave enough to be alone. They only understand how other men think. We see strength in numbers. Women see strength in walking alone.
4. Going out alone makes you look confident and will help you to grow your confidence. One of the most beautiful women I ever met was on a night I was in a club alone. She told me that she was so impressed that I was so brave and that she would never have the confidence to go out alone. It actually made me more attractive to her.
5. When you go out in a group you are very likely to just stand there in a circle talking to your friends while not taking action. Your friends actually become an impediment to your success.
So give it a try. Take a few steps out of your shell and see how much people start to respect you and you start to meet the women of your dreams. This is one of the key steps in learning how to get a girlfriend fast.
I disagree with some of the ‘negatives’ on this article. As with anything, there are pros to going with a buddy or group. For one, you *don’t* stand in the corner in silence and can build up your social momentum with your friends before you start talking to strangers. Two, having a buddy helps you in those sets where you need a wing. Third, having guys with you with the same goal can also push you to action. Fourth, I’ve been asked before ‘who are you here with’ and (especially for a club over a bar environment) being alone might communicate you have no friends to cone out with you. All in all I think going out with buds has more positives than solo. Plus, you can ‘be solo’ once in the club later on.
I think you make some really strong points. If I wasn’t clear, I am not suggesting that guys ALWAYS go out alone. More of a good exercise to add to the mix. Just going out alone once a month will have a dramatic effect on your overall game. There are pros and cons to everything and a lot of it comes from how you handle the situations you described. If you tell a girl you came solo and come off as embarrassed about it, that will definitely tank you, but if you say that you like to go out alone and have adventures then you are all good. A lot of times I will open girls and say all my friends ditched me and I need someone to talk to.
I think you made some solid points and I appreciate you taking the time bro.
I love picking up alone, I don’t do it daily but if I’m traveling I love doing it.
Works really well if you are not in your home town, works great in ASIA!